How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 13:29
Ask yourself:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why is the word "democracy" not in the preamble of the US Constitution?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Who are the archers in Genesis 49:23?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Is the Trump-Zelenskyy meeting a preview of what the US is going to do to Taiwan?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Jamie Dimon: The economy could ‘deteriorate’ soon - CNN
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Procrastinates a lot.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Who is someone that inspires you?
Making more friends is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why am I dreaming of people I've never seen before?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why don't men find fat women attractive?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Is it possible to revive a dead person in real life with black magic?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.